Friday, August 25, 2023

NFT scheme scam?

What is an NFT?

Well in truth: it is a receipt to a link. And the owner of the link (that points to an "original" image) can delete the link at any time πŸ™ƒ. 

Most think if it as selling a digital art piece that has a chain attached to a digital vault where whenever the digital art piece is sold the creator of the art piece gets a commission... but thats not what it really is. 

Most of these are scams anyway. 
Ex: the big bucks rich folk buy a bad monkey painting, the painting has "perks" attached, such as exclusive access to a yacht for parties, so they pay 3 million dollars for the painting and go to parties on that yacht when ever it is offered. If you bought into that scheme deal at a lower amt say 1 million dollars you later finf out that the invite notif says 4 specific celebs will be there, but when you get there you find out you only get access to certian area of the yacht (and never see the celebs the invite boasts about cuz theyre in the "security controlled vvvip section").  

When you get tired of the perk or art you just resell the receipt link [aka art piece] on the nft site to a new "art buyer" and they get that perk now. 
πŸ’₯Its simply stuff for bored rich people.

Other schemes include first right to buy newest fancy expensive nike shoes. 

Theres always a perk attached to most all of those nft sales. But the buyer isnt actually buying the art, but they can display the art anywhere, like a large lcd screen as a painting on the wall etc, but the link severs when it is "resold". 

Most nft art isnt sold at a high price, and theres environmental people hating in anyone who uses it because it has connection with using power from global computer users to run the system as a web server. 

You are better off selling a original or ltd edition or open "digital" art image in your own website for a good price. 

Many artists have been getting contacted by people (scammers or scam bots) trying to get an artist to make a nft image fir them or ask you to make one of your pieces an nft so they can buy it. It is a scam and they will take your miney, and probably take your art and turn it into a nft to sell themselves. 

Anyone offering to buy your art as an NFT is scamming you, they just want to get your money.  Report them as a scammer and block them right away.



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Tuesday, July 11, 2023

Korean Beef facts & trivia

Korean beef...
Is it like JP Wagyu? 

Korean cows called Hanwoo are light brown cows raised on rice straw. They have a unique fat content that lies between Wagyu and USDA prime. Combining a balanced flavor both full of the perfect oils and fats but with the substance and flavor of wonderful protein.  

Check out this info. Korean beef is the most expensive in the world.

Korean beef typically costs $50/kg


Example image #1
Hobak Vegas


Images of marbling standards link
They have a lot of dry aged beef too.


Details on Korean Beef
koreajoongang daily news πŸ“°


They do small packages of cut beef gift sets to give as exquisite gifts to important people. 
https://sodagift.com/send-to-south-korea/brands/Meat-(Delivery)%23128/Wet-Aged-Hanwoo-Special-Gift-Set-%231%2321443


Fun facts:
While this shows about 40 cuts, Korea actually has 120 cuts of beef. The US has way less, 22. See more on K Beef. 

Korean beef is so expensive for even average Koreans, you will see depicted in Kdramas, tv shows and movies "employees" trying to get their boss to buy them korean beef at staff dinners out. 
 

https://www.hanwoobeef.com


Tuesday, April 4, 2023

Instacart 411

What I have Learned as a Instacart user

There are things you need to be aware of regarding instacart before you use it, and while you use it avoid issues listed below. Some of this is opinion and suggestion, but overall it seems lessons learned.

Take time to read this and feel free to reshare to educate others; newbie and for those using it less than 2 years. 

And if you are at Instacart, pls share the "suggested" changes and upgrades internally to make this a better platform for customer/users.

Users, If you like some of the instacart ideas for changes, pls email instacart and let them know. 


I started using Instacart during covid era. Have had over 20 deliveries and want to share things I have found out and realized. I hope it helps you, and saves you some frustration or grief. 

1. Improved services
In the past and during covid era there were several issues the company dealt with (*i researched BBB). Instacart seems to have improved on prior issues. Any problems or issues you may have had in 2020, are likely no longer issues in 2023. The app has even undergone changes, and some i noticed even this month. This is good πŸ‘

2. Reschedule, never cancel an order. 
Avoid months of not receiving your $funds back for a cancelled order. I have horror story on that. So trust me... never never cancel it. 

Do not cancel the order. RESCHEDULE IT for a much later date. Then you should be able to reschedule it again (when you know for sure "when") to a more sooner date when you want it delivered. IF there are things in that rescheduled cart you no longer want or need, you should be able to go in and edit it, and of course add new stuff.

Call instacart for all reschedules, since shopper reschedule requests only push the order to later same day. :/

Update: took 3 months to get one of two refunds back. And that was after "countless" follow up with insta, and the bank.

3. Tip adjusts but custom tip doesnt.
(Currently) You cannot change the tip after you place the order. You cannot "add more tip" to lure a gig shopper to take your order. 

The tip you give will adjust if you select %. 
If you select a % tip say 10%... then if you remove items or add items that tip % (in dollars) will change. If you're tip at order was 5.00 and you added some more items, the system changes the tip to adjust to the new higher total. It could be a 6.00 or $10 tip based on new % (from retail order reciept cost). 

But, If you select custom $ tip, and instead of the $3.22 (10%) you change it to flat $3.00. Or if it was $7.55 at a % but you change it to a flat $6.00... but then you add 3 or 5 more items to the order, ((after you placed the order, [during the 30 min "add more items" grace period]))... your new retail total raises by $15 but your tip stays at $5.00 😬. (So tip well afterwards if it changes)! If you feel it should change.

If you are on a budget and are not well off financially, be aware of a custom tip pitfall. Be wise. 

For orders under $125 (or under $55), if you change the tip to a custom tip $, you might not get shopper, (or be delayed, delayed, delayed till someone picks it*).

But for orders over $150, without heavy items (like water cases) your adjustment of the tip from a suggested $25 tip to a custom $7.50 might be ok. But for heavy items, be considerate of the work theyre doing and tip decent. Its okay to add more to tip after job, but to get a gig worker (shopper/driver/deliverer person) to take the job, just think thru the tip before deciding on the min. amt you would offer as tip. 

Note: They do now get additional money from the company via two fees instacart adds besides the tip (bid). It includes $ for benefits and for meeting minimum wage. So really you are paying the shopper much more than the tip (job bid) money. 


4. Multiple orders happening 
Shoppers tend to do 2 to 3 orders at the same time at the same store, so your tip and others tips are added to that shoppers wallet for that hour of shopping. Sometimes you are the only client tho. This is why you have option for priority delivery (for fee) or delayed delivery time. They have multiple orders in their vehicle, and usually go to the closest client first. Which is why the system has a est arrival time.

4b Cannot trust the arrival time. 
Same day order can be 20m to 1.5 hrs early
Next day delivery, 2 or 3 hr window, can arrive 1.5 hrs early. 
Recommend assuming theyll arrive 1.5 hrs before you expect. They may be on time.... or faster 😊. 
It will vary. Theyll likely start the shopping 30 min before the 1st hour delivery time of that 3 hr window, and you need to communicate about swaps and delivery stuff, so plan that accordingly. Also pay attention in the 3 hr windows, you dont want dairy products and meat left on your porch for 2 hours unattended if they deliver earlier than you expect. Expect anytime in that 3 hr window. 
And if your phone notifs dont alert you cuz of a older or a cheap phone, stay on top of it by glancing at the chat area often. 
The priority delivery can be 1 hr 15 min early, so be aware and plan when to be home or at the door for recieving it.


5. Capitalism and Tip System
It is really a bid not a tip. I think they call it a tip so you will give more after items are delivered. Bids are a 1x amount. Theyre playing games by calling it a tip which shouldnt be legal. Until that changes, note if you put too low of a "tip bid", you wont get a shopper most of the time, and πŸ‘‰ your order will be pushed by the system. So even if you choose 2$ extra for priority delivery, you can be pushed back* an hour, and another hour etc. And instacart has a tricky thing where if orig promised time was 7:20pm but it pushed you to later time, a tiny notif will roll by your screen saying something like your priority fee will be waved if a shopper doesnt "take" the job for your order by 7:20pm. And then they try to assign someone, but might *still* push the order to another hour or 2 away. So it is a little deceptive, but that only happens when you give a low tip, or what the system perceives as a low tip. πŸ€”

They need to give a customer, after order is in system, an opp to "up the tip" amt if no gig worker takes the job after 30 minutes (for a asap delivery) or an hour (if you picked a 2 to 3 hr window). [But not a algirythim where they penalize you and push you lower for having a lower tip!]. A pop up should be added to note "tip might be too low, (for the time and expenses of shoppers in your area), would you like to adjust the amount?" If no, just let it roll until someone picks up the job. Or go to the store when you have time. 


πŸ’₯They def need to change the system (& contract) with shopper/driver to where "if the shopper is at the store or took another job for at that store, in that timeframe, and is within 10 miles of you, that the instacart company can add your order to the shoppers job". They might be a gig worker but this should be something instacart should do. At least add 1 to 2 lower tip jobs to the gig worker depending on how many they already scooped up for that timeframe. As this could be an order from a elderly limited income person, disabled or just poor who needs grocery help for whatever of 1,000 reasons. So this should be considered, and in the fine print of the gig worker sign up policy & legalize stuff. 

Theyre already there and already got tips from other people. Plus they get part of the service fee (by State Law, to ensure they make at least minimum wage). Many of these folks (outside small towns) make $15 to $50/hr in tips (plus+ part of the service fees for those orders). 

Instacart should change the system as noted cuz:
1. The person placing the low tip order might give more tip after the shopping is delivered. 
2. Poor people should not be penalized for using a service thats discrimination; it is currently based on serving people with money who give big tips. As Gig workers take big bids over smaller ones. 
3. Same issue for elderly folk on limited budget. 
4. Same for those with serious diseases and health issues [that are stressed and medical costs are super expensive (on a regular basis) [and cant even afford those expenses], who may also need help being weakened &/or not able bodied. 
5. Same for limited income folk who are disabled. 
6. Maybe insta could add a "pay it forward" & a "tip gifting" for tips to others accounts (somehow, by donation field via typing another users phone number?). Both those you know and those you dont; but a neighbor, associate, or church member would appreciate not having to worry about tips occassionally, with such a feature. 
7. Once a shopper takes the order, it is a contract. They should not be allowed to cancel the order and leave you in limbo awaiting some new shopper to pick up the job. Once they take it, they have to complete the order and deliver it. This needs to be in the contract.

6. Insta can improve for user buyer
A. Showing items you had in cart but removed, as suggested items next ordering time at that store
B. Showing of 2 stores who is cheaper for every item. 1. It might cause you to do 2 orders with fees but if cheaper for you why not. 2. shoppers benefit from that too.
C. Would be good if they linked to krazycouponlady, manufacturer, and store weekly deals so together insta can recommend a swap to you instead (better price). You can choose it or decline. Perhaps you only like that brand, perhaps the cheaper one has too much sodium, sugar etc. But if you choose the optn that saves $... insta system adds the manuf coupon or store discount sale.  >> this can be an opt in feature for those who actually stay alert / active on app during the shopper shopping. 
D. Allow us to remove items from previous ordered Buy It Again tab, sometimes we try a new chip or product and its a no go. We dont want to mistakenly reorder that one. Or One you found later might have lower sodium or sugar and dont want to mistakenly buy that prev one again. Or even if using family cart dont want your family to find condoms (or any sexual product) in the previous ordered area. 
E. Some phones don't seem to be giving audiable ding notifs and I am not sure why. It doesnt make sense to not hear a ding so you can respond to shopper communication. 
F. Other?

7. Rewards card linking
I had problems for quite a while linking Ralphs shop rewards card number (which uses kroger log in) to instacart ....and needed kroger support (human agent) to help me. 
>they have to link rewards card # to the acct, then you can go in to kroger.com and add the rewards number on that screen πŸ™ƒ. 
>Then go back to instacart and link the account. 

7b. Reasons to link rewards cards... !
*you save money
>look at the reciept the shopper puts in your bag, abd ensure what your bank account shows was charged, is what was charged on reciept (plus insta fees). You should only be charged retail cost vs what insta shows on your digital instacart reciept
* the shopper will get your store rewards on their rewards card but you somehow arent getting the discount (see above) and they get your fuel/gas rewards πŸ‘€, not you. As they use their rewards card on your order. 

8. Extra money in Hold
Instacart has fine print at Order Placed page that shows theyre holding addl $ from the order. The reason is likely:
> for additional tip you might give the shopper/deliverer (after delivery).
>for bag fees at store.
>in case you add a few items (during the grace period) after placing order. [We all can forget 1 or 2 items] 

So your bank might show Instacart $80 hold charge when you ordered $58.50. The money that wasnt charged at the store "check out" counter, will return to your bank acct. I think usually in 3 days, maybe 10 days at most. Check it to confirm/track. 

9. Photo assistance
Insta has a new feature i noticed. A newer shopper mistakenly selected fluffy lettuce instead of Napa Cabbage. I wanted the cabbage for soup and to make crispy korean cabbage "pancakes". But had shred cabbage on hand for the week so the mistake was ok. The help in the order area of app had me take a photo and show wrong item. Pretty neat. Glad they have the feature cuz it might be important No biggie


10. No item you wanted? 
If shopper sends image of a slim pickins shelf, or is not finding the item, and you dont want a diff item, ask them to "refund the item". Sometimes the shoppers actually do not understand when you say you dont want it then. They might be new, distracted or whatever, just be kind and ask for the item to be refunded. 

10B. Beware the swaps area
When you place order the system alerts you due to probably low stock. They dont tell you that when you add to cart b4 check out πŸ˜‘. When you get to that screen, IF you do mark an alt item... that item preference stays in the system. You have to remember πŸ™„ to go back in manually to that section [at next order πŸ™ƒ] and delete that preference (move back to shoppers choice) to undo that. It doesnt reset with every order. 

Same with notes you put on an item. 
It's fine if you labled a cold item "pls pick furthest date" but for some things you might have a note (ex.) for a beverage "swap this item for peach flavors" since the peach isnt in the app but you know it is a standard stocked item the store usually has. Maybe you want the orange one, so you need to delete that note. It doesnt reset with every order. You have to remember and intentionally go modify that note. πŸ™ƒ

11. Swap prep 
Just like groc list prep or giving your spouse or mom some direction you will need to do so with the shopper too. 

Before the order is in progress instacart typically asks you for swaps sometimes if an item is potentially not going to be on shelf when shopper gets there. Instscart suggests some items before you pay/check out in the app... but other times it doesnt. 

*I asked for basil plant but it was out. I already saw there were 4 other basil options (when i searched basil), so i screen shot those in case i needed to send in app to shopper, and i did. The store had 1 other basil plant, but since it was covid era i decided either the small enclosed package or the puree in a tube was fine. Shopper was able to get what i needed. 

*i keep alt images of items in a instacart store folder on phone just for that purpose. And the shopper might show you an item suggested for swap that the app didnt suggest, so you can go into the app and choose other swap item (while theyre shopping) and type it in and add it. And save that item into the phone's image folder.

* i also note on each item in the cart where it matters preference info. I will note "do not replace" or "ask about a alt swap if needed". I do note on produce or melons "do not swap". Because once i had really wanted a honeydew melon, and shopper swapped for cantelope w/o even asking me. > That note remains in the system on that item for future buy so edit it at each weeks order to ensure it is accurate request for that order. πŸ‘

11b. Swaps notice
Instacart has some items hard linked to an alt item. 
I found that out today by chance, during an order. 
So to the above note about swaps...

Make sure you note in any applicable product "item" any important notes (via the shop cart) before checking out.
Examples: 
*please wear gloves in produce area
*if not avail, swap for xyz
*ask for swap if not avail, client has food allergy
*if not avail, swap for 2x of xyz

And anything πŸ‘†very important, note to shopper in app chat when they take the job for your order . 


12. Credits$
Appears theres a new feature where insta doesnt keep a credit of money in your account to use on future orders, but somehow holds it till it reaches $25 then they send a visa giftcard of that amount. I can understand that because i dont think their system is set up for an store check out to take 2 payments for 1 transaction (insta credits and your payment card). But persinally i dislike the visa card payout thing. They should have a way to just refund to the charge card instead of credits, but likely cists them to do so, but its their error so 🀷🏻‍♂️.

13. If your shopper checked out, and when order is checked out but the contact disappears from your store area where you chat... go to menu and orders in main app area, and click on that shop order, the map and chat will pop up. 

13. Delivery suggestions
 If you live in an apartment or community where it is easier to drive into the parking gate than for delivery person to lug everything to you from a distant location (like a buzz in gate at the front), make sure to tell them that in chat... as soon as they check out. And give delivery direction info for onsite, cuz only 2 drivers ever read the Delivery instruction area built into the order πŸ™„πŸ˜‘. And if you need masked contactless, or/and a "knock" request, note it. 

Be careful at night!
I had one guy deliver emergency electroylte water and a thermomiter at midnight (cuz my dumbself accidentally ate a moldy cheese snack, and because I have cancer, that could put me in hospital and i could actually die from that πŸ₯Ί). So i specifically told him πŸ™„ in chat that "at arrival to leave it at the door, knock and depart." He knocked and i said thank you. ....i waited 30 seconds or so, didnt hear him leave, [seriously thought to get my gun for protection cuz something didnt seem right (and I was alone that night)]. I can hear a pin drop at night in the hall, so I would hear him walk off. But i heard nooothing. Then all of a sudden he said "Do you want me to carry this inside? 😳😳😢 im like πŸ‘€wth, nooo. I said "No...., thanks". And waited for him to leave the small bag on the floor at the door and go. I didnt hear him leave and was really upset, cuz it seemed OFF and πŸ€”sounded (in general) like he was trying to get access to my apartment! I waited like a min. Looked in peekhole, no one anywhere near there. Thought he finally got a clue and left. Put my mask on, creeked the door open.... and dude was right there in front of the door!!! Im like πŸ˜―πŸ’­ wth! Snagged the bag and closed the door quick. I shouldve listened to my gut and got my gun. I will always do so in future. What kind of midnight insanity. Dude didnt even have a mask on! Overall, Completely outrageous. 


*many dont realize some folk live in bad neighborhood, esp apartments. Thieves everywhere. Since 2000 you cant trust any neighbor, even our newspaper got stolen for yrs daily and any packages. Depending on where you live that could be your issue, so in that chat, ask them for a "Knock" request. 


*These folk dont read the delivery instructions and will instead do things the hard way. 95% of the shoppers parked on street and had to go buzz gate, & thru a 5 min maze to get here... when they couldve drove in to & walked up the inner stairs thats right near our door, and easy pesy delivered. Instead humped it and sweat, and wasted time in the maze, (or the one guy with a heavy collapsable wagon who carried that up the stairs πŸ˜¬πŸ˜”, and got lost in the maze) when they couldve been done and gone had they listened. I even texted a simple hand written map, after check out, and they dont use it. (Too many of them are in a rush mentality vs dealing with one task at a time.)


* if you need to get delivery before its stolen...set a timer 10-15 min before you est delivery time, and check them on the app map, and go wait at the door. 

B. Insta needs to allow 3- 5 min chat after order placed. If you notice missing item you can say. "Oh! Did the baking sheet/strawberries fall in the seat in your car? Theyre missing. Pls check before departing." Not everyone lives in a house, most are in a apt complex or gated community. Idky they changed the chat to cut off immediately after "delivered" notice, and you lose the item and hassle to contact and report missing item... and insta isnt gonna send them back to you. You might need that item today. I did! 

14. Wha'd u Get?
Make sure you go thru all the items at delivery. 
I have found that sometimes the shopper mistakenly puts a diff customers products in your bags at delivery. They have temp controlled units in the vehicles (do not know if its a company item or a cooler with ice). I got 2 orange juice bottles once, and the limited edition bakeware item i reallyyyy wanted was missing from the bags (and not carried by the store since). 
*if items are missing, go report it in the app. Theyll give you a refund on that amt (likely before their daily batch out). 
*i was exhausted one day, when order arrived i only wiped and put away the cold items, left the rest for the next day, but one bag only had onions so i just left it in the bag. Wrong. I mistakenly reported 2 small produce items. Got a credit, and realized the error 2 weeks later when i finally moved those onions... 😬. So i called support to make sure the shopper wasnt dinged for it (he wasnt), and to ask instacart to reverse the credit... which they couldnt as it had been passed the time the system allows for that. My bad πŸ₯Ί... i told them i would make sure to prevent that error for sure in the future.

*i think i saw the other day a new way for you handle the error: to go swap a wrong item out at the store yourself, if you want to. Im not able to go out due to serious health issue, so thats a no for me till covid dies. [Theres still 12 million people in CA who currently have covid πŸ˜¬πŸ˜”. May 2023]


15. Rate the Shopper 
 After the order completes, you went thru the groceries, and ensured you received everything... 
You can rate the shopper. I heard on social media that instacart expects all 5 stars. Def not 3 stars. I feel 3 stars is sometimes valid but dont want to ding the shopper if they were really doing a great job. 

*But that practice and expectation of 5 stars, or even 4 stars puts the customer in a bad place sometimes. You dont want to assume but have a legit concern, mull it over and give 3 stars. 
Example: One time a shopper hung around by my apt door after i clearly noted "deliver knock and leave" (due to covid era and thieving neighbors), i counted a certain amt of time, then opened the door grabbed the groc...and a min later got a creepy text saying he saw me, and that he was just a few feet away and i was 😱😨. Cuz 1. because of a health issue, I needed the air safe when i open the door even while masked (my eyes are vulnerable to the air).   2. Idk if hes a creep. But the things he texted seemed like it. *I was alone at that particular days timeframe, and if he wasnt actually a creep i didnt want to report him. I gave 3 stars, and didnt know how to report back then.  A shopper on social media noted he mightve stayed to update the app of job complete or/& loading the image to chat to show delivered. But in my mind... "deliver knock and leave" means just that. I cant safely get groceries if he is still standing there or nearby, and get them inside b4 a thief comes thru the hall. I did hesitantly leave the matter as the possibility that he wasnt a creep and was closing out the "job" on his phone. And it seems men are oblivious to these things, as well as serious issues during covid that affect those who have serious health conditions... and clearly noted as such in the delivery notes and the chat upon him taking the job. 
>shoppers need to be aware of this kind of thing. And men seem bad at this. If you are a shopper reading this... Pls do better, and educate others in your social media and shopper groups. 

Side note:  Shoppers should not be sending a greeting text in instacart talking about "5 stars only or no stars". πŸ™„. Saw that once and was appauled. Do the work well, get rated well! Some see 4 stars as normal good service. 5 stars is only for way above and beyond, so saying such a thing to a customer as if a demand is ridiculous and instacart should not allow such a cohersing of a gig worker to a client. 


16. Thank you note 
When you rate the shopper you can include a short thank you note. Theyll read it and get encouragement boost for the work they do. Esp in covid era and flu seasons we should kindly note gratitude. 


17. Tip 
You can finally ,add to the tip" as the last part of the feedback. If you tipped them well at start you dont have to add more. If they did a great job and you want to add more tip, now is your chance. 


Finally, 
If you are not $ well off, and you use instacart pretty regularly, you need to be paying attention to what you are charged. See 4b above. Call them on it, hold Instacart accountable on this issue, as if not, then theyre doing it to everyone else,  ..and taking many many peoples $$$$ money, [not taking only what is charged for the "retail" amt of the order at the store, is wrong]. Their service fee covers Instacarts profits. 

Bonus: one thing i love is that they tie products to fda for RECALLS. How fantastic is that! I got an alert by email today for frozen fruit from mexico with Hepititis A....  and was so happy to see that notice, because it is a layer of protection for consumers like myself who dont watch tv or the news much and so this is so helpful! 


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Tuesday, February 7, 2023

Are delivery services for "lazy"

Are grocery services for the "lazy"? 
DailyDot news: Walmart pick packer had 400 items for 15 orders during his work day and complained:
"Why are you buying the whole store? Customers dont give us a break." Internet replies. 

Another worker in same job chimmed in: "this is average for us, sometimes we get 1,000 items to pack in a day, even at our sm store."

Others say "if you dont like your job, leave, others would take it. Besides its unionized and you get breaks."

Post Comments

Some guy: 
This is exactly why the service industry can't find or keep workers, customers are lazy and companies only care about making money and catering to whatever brings in more sales.

Too lazy to go in a pick out your own food? And no, there's NO excuse for it. Didn't need it 30 years ago, don't need it now.


Reply: 
Um..excuse me sirrrr. Your ableness and privilege is showing. Were you aware these kinds of delivery services started to help the disabled and blind? It also helps moms with babies, parents who work long hours, people with with health conditions, (and those health-vulnerable who cannot be in public due to 3 yrs of covid). 

You should consider all the possibilities b4 speaking.


Some guy: 
oh give me a f ing break people need to toughen up, you wouldn't have survived 60 years ago, and good probably. The percentage of people using that service that are actually needing it is miniscule compared to the "priveledged" that are just lazy and don't want to do it.  And people that really need it...that's what friends and family are for, that's how it's always been done for 10k years and more, it didn't all of a sudden change in the last 20 years.  People didn't have "excuses" I guess before.

 
Reply:
Try again. I'm a Gen Xer who lived out of town, climbed trees, skateboarded (on home made kind w skates hammered to the board), roke bikes, played outdoors (doing things today that are regulated & have safety gear or safety features), made all kinds of stuff my own stuff thanks to 4H courses & my moms craftyness. Worked on cars by myself (cuz we had car class, and home ec), and the DIY mentality of our Gen.... (mz are the lazy ones, not us, our parents, grandparents, nor our grandkids. We see the value of these modern services and are glad they exist. I worked hard like my grandparents, (Korea and WW2 era, and Vet), as do many of us Americans. 

Also I am a Veteran. with physical issues due to a car accident (years ago), and am also battling incurable cancer; someone who looks normal (to those looking at me from the outside).  And yes theres tons who need that service, and are grateful we are in modern times that we have services like this, &....modern medicine, vehicles so we dont have to walk 20 miles & others to farm or bus people, taxis, uber, etc, motorized wheelchairs, also fast food, restaurants, pizza delivery, store pick up options, and phones, facetime to see each other countries or other states away, text, email, so we dont have to write snail mail letters to communicate, mail and packages ordered online must also be lazy, when you can just walk or ride a horse a few states away to go pick it up, oh & the invention of and convenience of "everything" internet. 

Modern times are great. But yeah πŸ™„πŸ˜’ everyone who uses all this modern stuff are "lazy". But, sure, God forbid πŸ™„ something is created to help the disabled and those who could use such wonderful helps. 

It is sad you think of things only from your view. Not everyone lives in same town they grow up in, some come from small families, aging/elderly w health issues, who live far apart, as do friends, others moved to new town for college or a new job or to care for aging parents who might have a disabling condition, and help w shopping can take a huge weight off of their responsibilities, or as they get settled in a new & distant location for college and a job for 6 months, and unpacking etc. Some people are single and work 18 hour days or until bed and are exhausted and rest on their day off. You dont know everyone's situation. But assume its easy pesy like your cushy able-bodied life apparently.

I honestly feel sorry for the people in your life, if there are any, cuz you lack empathy and kindness, and make bad assumptions, but also easily blurt out things online like one who speaks before thinking. I really hope you arent married or have kids until you understand all these things, and have a happy mindset that such services exist for those who need it. I would feel so bad for your wife having to live with a guy who thinks all these modern helps are "lazy" things.  Ps. it is not limited to the needs of the few "you think" there are. I has become a industry and useful service to all those who need and use it, including the employees it employs at the stores and the shopper/deliverers who make a living from it.


The "few" include :

People with incurable diseases: 155 million
*Includes people with cancer, asthma, respiratory issues pre and post covid, parkinsons, MS, etc.
(*and doesnt include those caring for them).

Blind people: 1.2 million are totally blind,
And 1.3 million are legally blind. 
(*and doesnt include those caring for them).

People who have health issues that fatigue them easily, and those with chronic fatigue (aka Myalgic Encephalomyelitis), and also those with long term long covid issues making walking or stairs a fatigue & breathing issue: it affects 1 in 8 Americans: 12.5 million  

Disabled people: 3 million who have difficulty (or severe difficulty) doing errands.
Semi able people with debilitating issues or health problems who cannot lift the weight of groceries. Like my step father who has a form of MS. 

Elderly who need help: 15.5 million (# who need help)

Single moms: 11 million 

A mom who has just birthed a child, and needs help for the first few months:  3,745,360 per year

Moms who are exhausted from 247 mom life, single mom or f/t w kids, and probably care for disabled & elderly parents.
Exhausted moms: 56.5 million (13%)

Number adult children unpaid & caring for: 
elderly parent : 72% of Americans
Who are elderly disabled: 34.2 million 

Note Millennial moms are caring for babies and aging parents at the same time. 

Pre covid 
80% of mothers had been primarily responsible for doing the housework, while 66% were chiefly responsible for the child care among 2 parent homes. 
Single moms, ofc did it all. Most "fathers" were deadbeats. 

3 yrs of covid 
Moms struggled more than dads with childcare duties.  As the pandemic went on 2 parent homes said fulfilling childcare duties became more difficult (52 percent, up from 38 percent in 2020), a larger share of moms (57 percent) than dads (47 percent) felt that way.


Number people who work overtime:
*71% in US work overtime at least 1x a week =
142 million 

29% overworked 2-3 times a week. =58 million 

About 19% of respondents worked overtime on almost all days of the week.= 3.8 million

77% of respondents said working overtime negatively affected their work-life balance.


Kids who get injured & go to hospital, who might get happy meal on way home:
672 per day = 245,280 per year. 

Kids hospitalized and released annually: 
3 million, pre covid, and not covid related.

(3 years) Pediatric Covid admissions: 
> 1,354 - 3,081 a day or 1.1 million a year.
> 78% of these were hospitalized. About 50% needed help breathing, and nearly a 1/3 were placed in intensive care.
*These all probably got a happy meal after discharge, both an adult one for exhausted parents and one for the recovering child(ren). 

Busy working husbands who take a load off wife (who is running home & raising kids) by ordering grocery delivery:
# ? Theres probably some decent ones who even if they work overtime will order for the family.

The list of reasons and people grocery service assists people probably goes on and on by a couple million. 

Fun facts: the 1st online ordering service and delivery service was launched in 1994


80% have ordered food delivery at some point in  their life. 

67% in the USA used a grocery delivery service during covid era (2020-2023). 

40 million have used grocery delivery in the last month. 

The service being used by the few "who are lazy" is beneficial to those who need it. It means the service wont be cut off, and will benefit long term. 


But sure... looking at the list, its "just a few" who you think need it πŸ™„. I guess you are Omniscient. 

Though, of course πŸ™ƒ if you are a able bodied man who doesnt help his able, semi bodied, or even disabled wife who works 247, (or care for your aging elderly or disabled parents), you wouldnt know anything about these useful needed helps, you just work your 8 hrs and sit on the couch, thinking youve done something to be treated like a king, while shes a servant slave to you and works 247. πŸ™„




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Sunday, March 25, 2012

A Can't Miss Movie!

180movie review

I saw the 180movie showing how people who are pro abortion, when open minded and think about the subject, really see what abortion is - murder, they become prolife in minutes! It's an amazing video to watch. I liked how civil and peaceful the conversations the people had in the documentary, which was refreshing, it got people to think. I was sad to learn so many people today don't know about Hitlers murder of millions of Jews and Christians, and it doesn't seem to be taught in public schools these days (which was shocking), but am glad this movie sheds light on it. I had heard in Austria, teaching about the holocaust is required - so they don't forget, and don't let it happen again (in any form. Makes me think this includes killing unborn growing babies, or elderly adult elimination too).

I also believe the gospel presentation was presented well and got people thinking, not just about morality but our responsibility to God YHWH for our sins.

Not only should every disciple of Jesus Christ see this movie, but they should get the study material and upcoming book too. Share with their church and reach out to the lost with it. Its not just for talking with people at abortion clinics, but with all people. May babies be saved, and souls won to YHWH by this information. Glory to God most high!

Find out more about babies, their growth, and what they look like at various stages of their lives here and from the National Geographic movie "in the womb" - an amazing documentary!

Thursday, March 22, 2012

Gospel

I realized i didnt have anything posted on the page about the gospel, under this tag, so...


Organizing - the sock life

Lose sox often?

Most people have to deal with this issue, but we don't anymore. I'll tell you our secret, because it's a time safer and life saver. What i mean is, it actually saves time from your life. Years ago i heard a person loses 2 full weeks of their life, during their life, finding and matching sox.

Now, i'm all for anything i can find that saves me time. I'm a military person and also an organized person, so naturally i came up with a solution. Safetypins. Yup. Just keep them safety pinned together when they are clean, dirty, and when they are washed... and you'll never have this issue again. We've only encountered 2 pairs of sox, since we've been doing this, that unpinned themselves. 99% success rate. Well worth it too. 

IMAGE HERE

Here's our suggestion:

We walk around in slippers at home, so it's easy for us to take our sox off right when we get home and get into our "home" clothes. take them off, use the pins from the morning, toss them in the dirty basket. Done.

Decoding the Sox:
Husband - gets big brass safetypins - his fingers are larger.
Wife - gets silver safetypins - different color and easy to locate when sorting laundry from the dryer. Helps tell the two apart, especially if you tend to get similar sox.

Kids - use colored safety pins.
If you have a boy and girl - use pink and blue, or similar color.
If you have older kids and younger kids, and the older kids dont have same size foot as mom, they can use gold and silver pins also, and let little ones use colored pins.


Tuesday, September 27, 2011

Have u seen 180movie?

I saw the 180movie showing how people who are pro abortion, think about whats said and become prolife in minutes. It got people to think.

I'm a little surprised the horrors of hitler and ww2 info isnt taught in public schools today, i have an idea why, but they need to ! It's important to know of the evil of hitler and people who believe as he does so it doesnt happen again. I was surprised how many people interviewed didnt know basic facts such as Hitlers murder of millions of Jews and Christians, but am glad this movie sheds light on it. Like 9/11 America cant forget what happened so they dont let it happen again. Learn on your own young folks. Read books by historians on it. Dont rely on whats said on the web.

I am not really surprised that people today dont even know that "fetus" is defined by the dictionary as "baby", its from the latin. Most American youth arent really getting an education in public schools these days ; because pc and political organizations seem to control what gets taught. If they can keep the kids ignorant or only teach some stuff....they can control them, as Hitler did the youth of Germany and Europe.

I was glad to see the gospel was presented well and got people thinking, not just about morality but our responsibility to God YHWH for our sins.

Not only should every disciple of Jesus Christ see this movie, but they should get the study material and upcoming book too. Share with their church and reach out to the lost with it. Its not just for talking with people at abortion clinics, but with all people. May babies be saved, and souls won to YHWH by this revealing information. Glory to God most high!

180movie, abortion, gospel, hitler, truth. Www.180movie.Com

Thursday, August 4, 2011

Rosetta Stone Questions and Answers.

                                                                          
So, I hear RS is great. I learned they have a new online learning added to the training too.

I hoped they had a discount for veteran military members. When I was stationed in EU in the late 90's we didn't have this to learn the language where we were. I would like to learn some. But they dont have a discount for me.

Now, military people in the army and marines and I think air force can learn free , but I didn't see navy listed.
Not sure if selected people can learn, based on job, or if its open to all active and reservists.

Based on the below information i'll be looking for an authorized dealer who sells for less at a low deal. I saw a $300 savings deal today, so if you wait long enough you might find one. Just make sure its not oem or a resale, that's not legal RS is fighting piracy and ppl violating the user agreement.

Information I couldn't find out in the store, on their web page and online searching
I got by calling and will share with you, to answer your questions too!

1. RS owns the software you buy. You're just a licensed user. It's not like you bought a music cd and want to get rid of it and sell it on ebay to recover some money from the product. You don't own the software even though you're using the physical product by CD-ROM. This means:
A. Don't buy any RS language online if they are not an authorized dealer. Call RS to confirm that store online is selling legal copies esp. If you find a great deal.
B. Don't sell the RS product your using or obtained, because it violates the user agreement and is illegal unless you're an authorized seller.

2. Upgrades:
A. If you have an RS product version 2 or less, you can upgrade to a higher level at a lower cost.
B. Exceptions:
1. you can not upgrade from home edition to personal edition because the personal edition offers online (additional) training.
2. If you have personal version 3 (v3) you can upgrade to new Totale version 4, because they both offer the online access.

3. What is the difference between the home edition and personal edition. I've seen the home edition levels 1-5 packages are less cost than the personal edition.
A. There is no content difference in the cd material.
B. Home edition doesn't offer the additional online training that the personal edition does.

4. Want to get the most bang for your buck? Who doesn't? I wondered if the difference between home edition and business edition was additional business words and writing. Nope. So what's the difference?
A. The difference is in the number of users.
B. Personal edition offers 10 users max. Business edition offers more.

5. I saw some libraries offered Rosetta Stone online, free. Is that true? Well I was excited when I saw a public library was offering a variety of them online free. Until I found out online that RS discontinued allowing libraries to do.that in 2006 or 2007. Bummer.

6. What's the difference between Totale v4 and personal edition 3.
A. Totale is the newest version of personal edition.

B. This is why you can upgrade in this product type. I do not know the cost difference. Call RS for that.

C. The online access difference is: the new Totale version offers live interaction, live chat with native speaker, games, and mobile access through iPad and iPhone ....but not Droid; which bums me out...and millions of Droid users. Hopefully they'll make one. I suggest if you have Droid and want Droid access, I'd email, tweet to them and comment on FB. Let me know when they plan to have Droid access and i'll update this blog post.
Until they add more (platforms) for access, It's not available on other tablet computers like iPads, from what the RS reps said to me. Maybe you could plead for that too.

D. I do not know if the personal version offers a limited or unlimited access to online learning.

E. I do know Totale version offers 3 month trial access to online stuff, after that its $10.00 a month. I guess they expect you'll learn the language in 3 months?

7. The cost.
A. I haven't used these yet, so I don't know if the price is worth it. Looking for a good deal first.
B. The cost for lower, single levels ranges from to.
C. The Totale level 1-5 product is currently at $479.00 and can cost around $760.00 Retail, without tax.

8. Currently authorized stores online I know of for selling RS language training are:
1. Rosettastone.com
2. Christianbook.com
I'll add more as I find them and verify them.

9. Discounts: I only know of these.
A. Active Military, through their command education center.

B. Christianbook.com has a promotion for home edition (the one without online access and not upgrade) for a $300 savings on many languages and level packages now. Probably in time for home/school season.

C. Might get free shipping. Check into that. sometimes the price it's offered at rosetta stone with free shipping is still more expensive than it would cost purchasing through an authorized dealer .

D. Well this is not really a discount it is something useful to know :
1. Rosetta: sometimes has a promotion where you can make 5 payments for the product instead of paying the whole cost up front . I have a feeling they.always have a payment plan option, but not sure if its only for those with credit cards, not debit bank cards even though you can use that card as credit in most stores. it does sound like if you order by phone you can save 25 dollars off your order directly through rosetta stone. so that plus free shipping if they offer it at the time you order may end up saving you money if you cannot find a better deal .
2. Other stores: I don't know if they do a pmt plan. If any I mention or vet do, I'll post it here. With credit card and atm debit visa details.

10. Avoid scams online and products without activation codes. http://www.finders-keepers.net/index.php?id=rosetta&sub=guide


I hope this review and information has been helpful to you as it has been to me . Who knows, Maybe since I did this review and posted it all over the web at specific places, RS might give me a great deal on multiple languages over the next 5-10 years, . I want to learn a lot of them....why not? Great for traveling and speaking to ppl on vacation!

Please let us know in the comments if it has been helpful! And tell us your experience with learning using personal version 3 and Totale version 4, how long it took , and your mastery of the language. And if this information has been helpful to you!

*Retailers may not add this review or link to their page without compensation.
If you're an authorized seller of RS let us know when you offer deals so our followers (on this topic) can be notified. And let us know of pmt plan details.


2020 Update:
Rosetta stone app was on sale on Black Friday for $200 for lifetime access on their app. I snagged it. I hope you do too. 



Wednesday, September 8, 2010

Grieving a Loved one and Hope for Tomorrow....

Check out the four blog posts at this link http://tomakeyouthink.blogspot.com/2010/09/grieving-loss-of-loved-one.html may it bless you and encourage you in Christ as you seek comfort in Him, or help those going through the grieving process.



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Saturday, September 4, 2010

Craigslist Is Safe Again !

The Craigslist Adult Section has been removed.  While claiming censorship and placing a "censored" logo on that section of the site, it's done in the USA according to TechCrunch 


People can feel safe again using the site and it's services. I remember a time whenever I searched for jobs in my profession and they ended up (after much research) being connected with the adult industry and it turned me off from using their services for job searching. I felt every position posted on there were all con's and dangerous for women.  


Now that this sleazy section of the site is gone, I will feel safe to use the site for job searching, selling, buying and everything else that the site was good for. 

Tuesday, December 1, 2009

Send Our Troops a Christmas Card

XEROX IS DOING SOMETHING COOL

If you go to this web site, http://www.letssaythanks.com/ you can pick out a thank you card and Xerox will print it and it will be sent to a soldier that is currently serving in Iraq. You can't pick out who gets it, but it will go to a member of the armed services.

How AMAZING it would be if we could get everyone we know to send one!!!

It is FREE and it only takes a second.

Wouldn't it be wonderful if the soldiers received a bunch of these?

Whether you are for or against the war, our soldiers over there need to know we are behind them. This takes just 10 seconds and it's a wonderful way to say thank you.

Please take the time and please take the time to pass it on for others to do. We can never say thank you enough. Thanks for taking to time to support our military!

This message was sent to me by someone who also served (US Army) our country for many years, honorably!!! And my husband and I are also recent American Military Veterans. I know this will mean a lot to those who receive them.

Note: You can send a personalized comment to them instead of picking one that is already written. Simply select "other". This is great for encouraging them and leaving a message about Jesus.

Here's the one we sent:

"I appreciate what you all are doing for our freedom. As a veteran I know what you are going through. All the troops are in our hearts and prayers each day. Always remember what you're doing will always be appreciated and never forgotten. I wish you all the best and pray for your safe and speedy return home to your family and friends. May Jesus guide your path. www.NeedGod.com ><>"

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Thursday, November 19, 2009

Blapshemy of the Holy Spirit

Did you know it is impossible to blaspheme the Holy Spirit today? It's true, and I'm going to explain to you why that is.

First, look at the text where Jesus was speaking about blasphemy. To get the context of the passage you need to know what He was talking about before He mentioned the unforgiveable sin.

Mark Chapter 3
1Another time Jesus went into the synagogue, and a man with a shriveled hand was there. 2Some of them were looking for a reason to accuse Jesus, so they watched him closely to see if he would heal him on the Sabbath. 3Jesus said to the man with the shriveled hand, "Stand up in front of everyone."

4Then Jesus asked them, "Which is lawful on the Sabbath: to do good or to do evil, to save life or to kill?" But they remained silent.

5He looked around at them in anger and, deeply distressed at their stubborn hearts, said to the man, "Stretch out your hand." He stretched it out, and his hand was completely restored. 6Then the Pharisees went out and began to plot with the Herodians how they might kill Jesus.


7Jesus withdrew with his disciples to the lake, and a large crowd followed from Galilee. 8When they heard all he was doing, many people came to him from Judea, Jerusalem, Idumea, and the regions across the Jordan and around Tyre and Sidon. 9Because of the crowd he told his disciples to have a small boat ready for him, to keep the people from crowding him.... 11Whenever the evil spirits (who inhabited the bodies of some of the people) saw Jesus, they fell down before Him and cried out, "You are the Son of God." 12But he gave them strict orders not to tell who he was.

13Jesus went up on a mountainside and.... 14He appointed twelve—designating them apostles.... 20 Then Jesus entered a house, and again a crowd gathered, so that he and his disciples were not even able to eat. 21When his family heard about this, they went to take charge of him, for they said, "He is out of his mind."
22 And the teachers of the law who came down from Jerusalem said, "He is possessed by Beelzebub! By the prince of demons he is driving out demons."

23 So Jesus called them and spoke to them in parables: "How can Satan drive out Satan? 24If a kingdom is divided against itself, that kingdom cannot stand. 25If a house is divided against itself, that house cannot stand. 26And if Satan opposes himself and is divided, he cannot stand; his end has come. 27In fact, no one can enter a strong man's house and carry off his possessions unless he first ties up the strong man. Then he can rob his house. 28I tell you the truth, all the sins and blasphemies of men will be forgiven them. 29But whoever blasphemes against the Holy Spirit will never be forgiven; he is guilty of an eternal sin."

30 He said this because they were saying, "He [Jesus] has an evil spirit."


These leaders had been following and closely watching Jesus since He began his ministry. They knew of Him, what the people said about Him, and they themselves have seen and heard in His presence as well. So, here, Jesus was teaching those who listened and the religious leaders that if they had the full knowledge of Jesus Christ...meaning, they truely understood who Jesus really was, that all Jesus said about Himself, and that God revealed about Jesus, His eternality, that He is God, that He is the Savior the promised Messiah, that He is the Judge, as well as the Creator of all, including those whom He spoke to, that He is the author of the Scriptures, and the one who taught about God because He is God, etc, and that they fully knew what it meant to reject Him, choosing in stead the horrors of Hell, if they fully comprehended all this information... and what it meant to obey His commands, through the Gospel, and yet after all this information, (if the had the full knowledge, and understanding) that they would, with full knowledge, decide to believe that Jesus was a Demon then they are guilty of the sin of blasphemy against the Holy Spirit. The Spirit is the one who brings the understanding of the truth to humans, and for them to, with a full knowledge...reject the truth that they know, they damn themselves to Hell with no chance of forgiveness.

Now, it's impossible to have a fully complete knowledge of the truth of Jesus Christ, and to reject Him by calling Him Satan. There is no way anyone (because they'd be in their right mind) could, with the full truth, blaspheme the Holy Spirit as to commit the one sin that will never be forgiven. It's impossible. Meditate on that for a while. And remember to share that with people who think they may have committed that sin. You can also share that with the atheists and Christ haters who have taken the "BlasphemyChallenge" in recent years. God is laughing at them, because they do not have the "full knowledge" of the truth. If they did, as I said, they would NEVER commit the sin, because they wouldnt be able to. They'd embrace Christ and be in such awe over Him and what they knew...they'd repent and trust in Christ on the spot, immediately.

What is the unforgivable sin? >> Rejecting Christ. If you die without Jesus, you die unforgiven.
Whatever decision you make today, is a decision. Choosing not to repent and turn to Jesus, is a decision. Deciding to delay it, for whatever reason, is still a decision. However if you die tonight... it is too late. This is why God says Today is the day of salvation"... because tomorrow isnt guaranteed. 160k people die every day. Get this eternal matter settled today. Today might be your last day, so get right with God, right now. 


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What are they teaching? TD fakes, Furtik & crew

TD Jakes, Joyce Meyer, and Joel Osteen preaches a gospel that is not the biblical message. He teaches falsely. Information on this page is to help you understand why what he says is wrong. And we also have a free book link at the end for you to read through to examine more fully.

“Law-Lite”: Salvation From Unhappiness By Doing Your Best. There is no condemnation in Osteen’s message for failing to fulfill God’s righteous law. On the other hand, there is no justification, either. Instead his message is of upbeat moralism that is somewhere in the middle: Do your best, follow the instructions I give you, and God will make your life successful. “Don’t sit back passively,” he warns, but with a gentle pleading suggests that the only reason we need to follow his advice is because it’s useful for getting what we want. God is a buddy or partner who exists primarily to make sure we are happy. “You do your part, and God will do his part.” “Sure we have our faults,” he says, but “the good news is, God loves us anyway.” Instead of accepting God’s just verdict on our own lawlessness and fleeing to Christ for justification, Osteen counsels readers simply to reject guilt and condemnation. Yet it is hard to do that successfully when Osteen says God’s favor and blessing on my life depend entirely on how well I can put his commands to work. “If you will simply obey his commands, He will change things in your favor.” That’s all: “…simply obey his commands.”

According to Osteen, everything depends on “us”, and he claims it’s easy. One wonders if he has ever had a crisis of doubt or moral failure that stripped him naked in God’s presence. I doubt he has seen God’s Law in truth, and his actual crimes against God from violating that Law. Osteen seems to think that we are basically good people and God has a very easy way for us to save ourselves-not from his judgment, but from our lack of success in life-with his help. “God is keeping a record of every good deed you’ve ever done,” he says-as if this is good news. “In your time of need, because of your generosity, God will move heaven and earth to make sure you are taken care of.”

It may be “Law Lite,” but make no mistake about it: behind a smile that eschews any talk of God’s wrath, there is a determination to assimilate the gospel to law, an announcement of victory to a call to be victorious, indicatives to imperatives, good news to good advice. The bad news may not be as bad as it used to be, but the good news is just a softer version of the bad news: Do more. But this time, it’s easy. And if you fail, don’t worry. God just wants you to do your best. He’ll take care of the rest.

So who needs Christ? At least, who needs Christ as “the Lamb of God who takes away the sin of the world” (Jn 1:29)? The sting of the law may be taken out of Osteen’s message, but that only means that the gospel has become a less demanding, more encouraging law whose exhortations are only meant to make us happy, not to measure us against God’s holiness.

What Osteen teaches is NOT biblical. The truth is, God’s angry wrath abides upon those who live in sin, and for self. They commit crimes against God and break His law in their thoughts, by their words, and their actions, and they think very lightly of it. Yet, the day will come when God will hold them accountable…because their crimes are against GOD. Therefore, if they refuse the free gift of God in Jesus Christ, if they don’t Repent of their sins, forsake living rebelliously against God and the teachings of Scripture, and trust that Jesus is who He said He is, and whom the Scriptures declare He is as well as that Jesus paid the full fine for their sin penalty…if the don’t do this, they will die in their sins, and be judged by God, and sent to Hell to be punished eternally, and there they will be in torment, have no hope of escape or release.

We are bad people, who can be saved by a good God. The True and Living God, who has proved that he cares for His creation. He shows His loving-kindness toward us that while we were His enemies, He paid a huge price in order to show His grace and mercy toward us. Get right with God today www.NeedGod.com Don’t be like those people who refuse to obey God. They will die in their sins and receive what they deserve. God offers you forgiveness, grace and mercy, and a right relationship with Him. Do it today.


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Info based on blog article, “Law-Lite” Osteen. See whole article at: http://blog.echurchwebsites.org.uk/2009/11/16/joel-osteen-glory-story-case-study


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Tuesday, July 28, 2009

Battlestar Galactica and the UN ?

I turned on the tv this morning and heard a news cast interviewing the guy who writes or created the series Battlestar Galactica. Apparently he was brought to the UN and they made a resolution or law because of this fantasy science fiction show, and the creator/writer of the show was in awe over the meeting and all that has come of it.

Oh give me a break.

The UN was saying their series deals with a lot of today's society kinds of things and specifically thinks the message in the scifi series calls people of every race to stop violence against each other and see us not as Arabs and Israeli's or Blacks and Whites, but as one group of people. Humans.

Christians have been teaching and saying that ever since Jesus Christ. The world is now going to make a resolution under the UN to unite people together becuase we are humans? I thought it was time that the world was told or called to remember that Christianity has taught this from day one. Scripture tells us that when we come to Christ we are no longer Jews or Gentiles, we are one under Christ.

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"I have found, my brethren, by long experience that nothing touches the heart like the cross of Christ. When the heart is touched and wounded by the two-edged sword of the Law, nothing heals its wounds like the balm that flows from the pierced heart of Jesus." - Charles Spurgeon (1834-1892)

Friday, October 24, 2008

What Happened in MA will happen in CA without voters saying YES to Prop 8

In 2006 CA voted no on same sex marriage. 

What same-sex "marriage" has done to Massachusetts

It's far worse than most people realize...
This was sent to me by a friend. I wanted to share it with you....

October 20, 2008
by Brian Camenker

Anyone who thinks that same-sex "marriage" is a benign eccentricity which won't affect the average person should consider what it has done in Massachusetts. It's become a hammer to force the acceptance and normalization of homosexuality on everyone. And this train is moving fast. What has happened so far is only the beginning.

On November 18, 2003, the Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court announced its Goodridge opinion, ruling that it was unconstitutional not to allow same-sex "marriage." Six months later, homosexual marriages began to be performed.

The public schools
The homosexual "marriage" onslaught in public schools across the state started soon after the November 2003, court decision.

At my own children's high school there was a school-wide assembly to celebrate same-sex "marriage" in early December, 2003. It featured an array of speakers, including teachers at the school who announced that they would be "marrying" their same-sex partners and starting families either through adoption or artificial insemination. Literature on same-sex marriage – how it is now a normal part of society – was handed out to the students.

Within months it was brought into the middle schools. In September, 2004, an 8th-grade teacher in Brookline, MA, told National Public Radio that the marriage ruling had opened up the floodgates for teaching homosexuality. "In my mind, I know that, `OK, this is legal now.' If somebody wants to challenge me, I'll say, `Give me a break. It's legal now,'" she told NPR. She added that she now discusses gay sex with her students as explicitly as she desires. For example, she said she tells the kids that lesbians can have vaginal intercourse using sex toys.

By the following year it was in elementary school curricula. Kindergartners were given picture books telling them that same-sex couples are just another kind of family, like their own parents. In 2005, when David Parker of Lexington, MA – a parent of a kindergartner – strongly insisted on being notified when teachers were discussing homosexuality or transgenderism with his son, the school had him arrested and put in jail overnight.

Second graders at the same school were read a book, "King and King", about two men who have a romance and marry each other, with a picture of them kissing. When parents Rob and Robin Wirthlin complained, they were told that the school had no obligation to notify them or allow them to opt-out their child.

In 2006 the Parkers and Wirthlins filed a federal Civil Rights lawsuit to force the schools to notify parents and allow them to opt-out their elementary-school children when homosexual-related subjects were taught. The federal judges dismissed the case. The judges ruled that because same-sex marriage is legal in Massachusetts, the school actually had a duty to normalize homosexual relationships to children, and that schools have no obligation to notify parents or let them opt-out their children! Acceptance of homosexuality had become a matter of good citizenship!

Think about that: Because same-sex marriage is "legal", a federal judge has ruled that the schools now have a duty to portray homosexual relationships as normal to children, despite what parents think or believe! In 2006, in the elementary school where my daughter went to Kindergarten, the parents of a third-grader were forced to take their child out of school because a man undergoing a sex-change operation and cross-dressing was being brought into class to teach the children that there are now "different kinds of families." School officials told the mother that her complaints to the principal were considered "inappropriate behavior."

Libraries have also radically changed. School libraries across the state, from elementary school to high school, now have shelves of books to normalize homosexual behavior and the lifestyle in the minds of kids, some of them quite explicit and even pornographic. Parents complaints are ignored or met with hostility.

Over the past year, homosexual groups have been using taxpayer money to distribute a large, slick hardcover book celebrating homosexual marriage titled "Courting Equality" into every school library in the state.

It's become commonplace in Massachusetts schools for teachers to prominently display photos of their same-sex "spouses" and occasionally bring them to school functions. Both high schools in my own town now have principals who are "married" to their same-sex partners, whom they bring to school and introduce to the students.

"Gay days" in schools are considered necessary to fight "intolerance" which may exist against same-sex relationships [though the actual definition or intolerance is physical assault against those you dont agree with, so that doesnt really fit, but the media distorts that word]. Hundreds of high schools and even middle schools across the state now hold "gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender appreciation days". They "celebrate" homosexual marriage and move forward to other behaviors such as cross-dressing and transsexuality. In my own town, a school committee member recently announced that combating "homophobia" is now a top priority.

Once homosexuality has been normalized, all boundaries will come down. The schools are already moving on to normalizing transgenderism (including cross-dressing and sex changes). The state-funded Commission on Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender Youth includes leaders who are transsexuals.

Public health
The Commissioner of the Massachusetts Department of Public Health is "married" to another man. In 2007 he told a crowd of kids at a state-sponsored youth event that it's "wonderful being gay" and he wants to make sure there's enough HIV testing available for all of them.

Since homosexual marriage became "legal" the rates of HIV / AIDS have gone up considerably in Massachusetts. This year public funding to deal with HIV/AIDS has risen by $500,000.
Citing "the right to marry" as one of the "important challenges" in a place where "it's a great time to be gay", the Massachusetts Department of Public Health helped produce The Little Black Book, Queer in the 21st Century, a hideous work of obscene pornography which was given to kids at Brookline High School on April 30, 2005. Among other things, it gives "tips" to boys on how to perform oral sex on other males, masturbate other males, and how to "safely" have someone urinate on you for sexual pleasure. It also included a directory of bars in Boston where young men meet for anonymous sex.

Domestic violence
Given the extreme dysfunctional nature of homosexual relationships, the Massachusetts Legislature has felt the need to spend more money every year to deal with skyrocketing homosexual domestic violence. This year $350,000 was budgeted, up $100,000 from last year.

Business
All insurance in Massachusetts must now recognize same-sex "married" couples in their coverage. This includes auto insurance, health insurance, life insurance, etc.
Businesses must recognize same-sex "married" couples in all their benefits, activities, etc., regarding both employees and customers.

The wedding industry is required serve the homosexual community if requested. Wedding photographers, halls, caterers, etc., must do same-sex marriages or be arrested for discrimination.

Businesses are often "tested" for tolerance by homosexual activists. Groups of homosexual activists often go into restaurants or bars and publicly kiss and fondle each other to test whether the establishment demonstrates sufficient "equality" ­ now that homosexual marriage is "legal". In fact, more and more overt displays of homosexual affection are seen in public places across the state to reinforce "marriage equality".

Legal profession
The Massachusetts Bar Exam now tests lawyers on their knowledge of same-sex "marriage" issues. In 2007, a Boston man, Stephen Dunne, failed the Massachusetts bar exam because he refused to answer the questions in it about homosexual marriage.

Issues regarding homosexual "families" are now firmly entrenched in the Massachusetts legal system. In many firms, lawyers in Massachusetts practicing family law must now attend seminars on homosexual "marriage". There are also now several homosexual judges overseeing the Massachusetts family courts.

Adoption of children to homosexual "married" couplesHomosexual "married" couples can now demand to be able to adopt children the same as normal couples. Catholic Charities decided to abandon handling adoptions rather submit to regulations requiring them to allow homosexuals to adopt the children in their care.

In 2006 the Massachusetts Department of Social Services (DSS) honored two men "married" to each other as their "Parents of the Year". The men already adopted a baby through DSS (against the wishes of the baby's birth parents). According to news reports, the day after that adoption was final DSS approached the men about adopting a second child. Homosexuals now appear to be put in line for adopting children ahead of heterosexual parents by state agencies in Massachusetts.

Government mandates
In 2004, the Governor ordered Justices of the Peace to perform homosexual marriages when requested or be fired. At least one Justice of the Peace decided to resign.

Also marriage licenses in Massachusetts now have "Party A and Party B" instead of "husband and wife."

Since homosexual relationships are now officially "normal", the Legislature now gives enormous tax money to homosexual activist groups. In particular, the Massachusetts Commission on Gay Lesbian Bisexual and Transgender Youth is made up of the most radical and militant homosexual groups which target children in the schools. This year they are getting $700,000 of taxpayer money to go into the public schools.

In 2008 Massachusetts changed the state Medicare laws to include homosexual "married" couples in the coverage.

The public square
Since gay "marriage", annual gay pride parades have become more prominent. There are more politicians and corporations participating, and even police organizations take part. And the envelope gets pushed further and further. There is now a profane "Dyke March" through downtown Boston, and recently a "transgender" parade in Northampton that included bare-chested women who have had their breasts surgically removed so they could "become" men. Governor Patrick even marched with his "out lesbian" 17-year old daughter in the 2008 Boston Pride event, right behind a "leather" group brandishing a black & blue flag, whips and chains!

The media
Boston media, particularly the Boston Globe newspaper, regularly does feature stories and news stories portraying homosexual "married" couples where regular married couples would normally be used. It's "equal", they insist, so there must be no difference in the coverage. Also, the newspaper advice columns now deal with homosexual "marriage" issues, and how to properly accept it.

A growing number of news reporters and TV anchors are openly "married" homosexuals who march in the "gay pride" parades.

Is gay marriage actually legal in Massachusetts?Like everywhere else in America, the imposition of same-sex marriage on the people of Massachusetts was a combination of radical, arrogant judges and pitifully cowardly politicians.

The Goodridge ruling resulted in a complete cave-in by politicians of both parties on this issue. Same-sex "marriage" is still illegal in Massachusetts. On November 18, 2003 the court merely ruled that it was unconstitutional not to allow it, and gave the Legislature six months to "take such action as it may deem appropriate." Note that the Massachusetts Constitution strongly denies courts the power to make or change laws, or from ordering the other branches to take any action. The constitution effectively bans "judicial review" – a court changing or nullifying a law. Thus, the court did not order anything to happen; it simply rendered an opinion on that specific case. And the Legislature did nothing. The marriage statutes were never changed. Technically, same-sex marriages are still illegal in Massachusetts.

Nevertheless, we are having to live with it. And furthermore, this abdication of their proper constitutional roles by the Legislature and Governor has caused a domino effect as "copycat" rulings have been issued in California and Connecticut, with other states fearful it will happen there.

In conclusion
Homosexual "marriage" hangs over society like a hammer with the force of law. And it's only just begun.
It's pretty clear that the homosexual movement's obsession with marriage is not because large numbers of them actually want to marry each other. Research shows that homosexual relationships are fundamentally dysfunctional on many levels, and "marriage" as we know it isn't something they can achieve, or even desire. This is about putting the legal stamp of approval on homosexuality and imposing it with force throughout the various social and political institutions of a society so people are forced to have it become the "norm" in society.

You've been forewarned.

End of article.


Californians need to vote on Prop 8. Homosexual people already have regular legal rights for all the other things Americans are entitled to, but homosexual marraiges will ruin society and our children. The historical statistics on this are clear and factual.

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Sunday, October 19, 2008

"FIREPROOF" the movie - a review

My whole family and I went to see it together. It is great for preparing people for the struggles that can take place in a marriage; especially when a spouse becomes selfish. If you plan to get married one day, are engaged, or have been married for years...go see it. I highly recommend this movie!

I am very thankful that the movie was a positive option for families to enjoy; without the fear of blasphemous language, nudity, and things that are offensive to God and those who follow Christ. Knowing that Kirk Cameron, who met his real wife on the set of Growing Pains, came to Christ, and has a ministry that proclaims the biblical gospel… I decided to see the movie.

Kirk Cameron plays the leading role, where much of the plot was focused, his professional experience and quality acting made “Fireproof’s” overall a quality movie. Once the story line “grabbed” me… I was sucked in and enjoyed the movie and the lesson they were teaching the audience. There were several very good action scenes, and one that really shocked me. The seriousness was also broken up at the right times with some well-placed moments of humor. There were several twists and turns in the movie which made me realize in the end, that there were actually several plots taking place all along in many of the earlier scenes. This aspect makes me want to see it again so I can see those plots in more detail in the early parts of the movie.This movie hit on more serious and theological elements than other Christian movies out there. The most obvious was the scene where the gospel message was presented. Leading up to this scene, credibility was given to the gospel by having true Christian character being witnessed by others. In one previous scene, Kirk says to one firefighter, about the faith of another, “You may not agree with him, but you and I both know he is the ‘real deal’.” A comment that all Christians should hope others would say about them.

In the scene where Kirk hears the gospel - I was most impressed. The gospel was presented to him in the correct biblical way (as someone who has violated the commandments of God and is in need of redemption). In a great play on words, after hearing the gospel, Kirk vents to his dad about his wife and their problems, and the words he uses to describe his wife are the very words God uses to describe a sinner’s attitude toward God. The holiness of God and the desperation of man in need of a Savior were clearly articulated in this scene. It gave me goose-bumps to be honest. I prayed that any man in the audience who was not saved and treated his wife as Kirk’s character did, (or a man who claims to be a Christian and yet treats his wife that way), would fall to his knees before Jesus Christ in prayer repenting of his attitude and behavior towards his wife, get right with God, and without any pre-requirements he may think of for his wife… put those aside and be the husband he was created and called to be in Christ.

Another Biblical aspect of the movie that I really liked was the clear demonstration of how the gospel truly changes someone. Paul says that we are “new creations” when we are “in Christ” (2 Cor. 5:17). Contemporary evangelical Christianity often promotes the idea that Christians should behave like the world in order to be “relevant.” The attitude of “You’re cool, and I’m cool, and I like Jesus, so you probably would like Jesus too, why don’t you try Jesus and see how cool He is,” has become a common false “gospel” of our day. This often leads to professing Christians continuing in sin and being a part of the world, when in reality the Bible teaches us to be holy, forsaking sin, and be among the world but not like those in this evil world.

In “Fireproof” the message is very clear that sinners are expected to act like sinners, but that the gospel changes one’s desires from loving their sin to hating their sin, and from hating righteousness to hungering and thirsting after righteousness. It achieves this. The reality of how hard the Christian life can be comes out and brings more Biblical credibility to the story. The movie demonstrates well that “the way of the transgressor is hard” (Proverbs 13:15) and that “obeying God often prevents sinful consequences”, and it does it without insinuating that becoming a Christian will fix all the problems that person has or will have in life (as the false gospel does).

Biblical messages are highlighted throughout the movie in the wisdom of mature Christians. The Biblical idea that “love” is not a feeling or an emotion, but is a decision, is demonstrated both in the gospel presentation, as what Christ has done for us, as well as in how we should love others. Forgiveness also is demonstrated Biblically, not as simply forgetting what others have done to us, but as a decision to not hold anything against others or use the things from the past to harm the relationship; just as Christ has done for us.

“Fireproof” succeeds in showing that the gospel is powerful in killing sinful desires and wrong motives, and in saving sinners for the glory of God. While the movie adequately moved me unto the end, I felt like I had been in a Biblically-centered two-hour counseling session when I left. That may sound negative to some, but I don’t mean that in a negative way. The messages were very clear and Biblically sound and demonstrated how powerful the true gospel of Christ is in repairing relationships as well as in saving lost souls.

I would highly recommend the movie to anyone, as well as the “Love Dare” bible study materials for church study groups. Besides the new movies “The Gospel of John” and “Time Changer”, Fireproof is now one of my top favorite Christian movies. May the messages in it reach the hearts and minds of spouses in this country, and world, as well as in Christian homes –for the saving of souls and the complete transformation of personalities and mind frames within the family unit.

Friday, October 10, 2008

Have you seen the Bonnie Hunt show?

It has a 5o's type theme to it. I saw it today for the first time and was glad to see normal "other" actors on the show, normal nice things being discussed, and no political push or forceful views to get you to follow their agenda. It is a nice show for the most part, and they even try to raise funds to fight breast cancer. I plan to check out some other episodes of the show to look into it more.

The only negative thing about the show is that, while the host seems reserved she does unfortunately use God's name regularly, in an unconscious way, which is extremely offensive to this Christian. I'm praying someone will let her know that she's doing that, so she can turn from that sin. It's very serious to God, and holds a penalty for those who use His name in vain. Pray a Saint will mention it to her. I don't know if she's saved, but she may not be, so pray for those things.

Hearts and Minds produce thoughts and words. Are there any words we sanitize in our culture, to make them acceptable? They aren't acceptable to God!


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